In this six-and-a-half minute short, Su-fei, an unhappily unmarried single Jewish girl, interviews young and old in Beijing about getting boyfriends and spouses. At the 3:10 mark she talks to an old couple about their arranged marriage, the feelings they had, and what they first talked about.
Did you notice that more than one person mentioned “fate” (just after 2:10)? I think there might be an underlying cultural deal going on there. Also, at the end when she finally gets a guy’s phone number, notice how he hands it to her: business cards should always be given and received two-handed.